Specializing in relationships and couples | Specializing in relationships and couples |

Specializing in relationships and couples | Specializing in relationships and couples |

Specializing in relationships and couples | Specializing in relationships and couples |

Specialized, evidence-based couples and sex therapy for relationships that feel stuck | Specialized, evidence-based couples and sex therapy for relationships that feel stuck

Specialized, evidence-based couples and sex therapy for relationships that feel stuck | Specialized, evidence-based couples and sex therapy for relationships that feel stuck

Specialized, evidence-based couples and sex therapy for relationships that feel stuck | Specialized, evidence-based couples and sex therapy for relationships that feel stuck

You have read the pile of relationship books.
Your TikTok and Instagram follows are basically relationship advice. 

Maybe you even tried couples therapy...
 50-minute sessions, once a week, just enough time to scratch the surface

And still… you’re having the same fight.

No one ever showed you how to actually change the pattern.

Most couples therapy wasn’t built for real-life, stuck, repeating conflict.

You show up each week and get cookie-cutter:
“Communicate better.”
“Go on date nights.”
“Use ‘I’ statements.”

Sounds nice (and maybe helps for two days)...then it doesn’t work.

Because none of that touches the real problem;

The loops running your relationship.

You've Probably Tried Everything...

Open/ENM dynamics creating constant comparison

Always arguing about sex

Feeling like roommates

Feeling ignored but can’t pinpoint why

Fear of saying the wrong thing keeps you quiet

The “why can’t we just understand each other?” spiral

Shutdowns that feel like disconnection

Avoiding intimacy to prevent conflict

Little things
become BIG
things

feeling Overwhelmed in arguments

not feeling heard or understood

it is always
a debate

i am tired of
trying first

we act like we are just friends

If your nervous system is hijacked,
 old wounds get touched,
 or rejection comes up, 
“just talk it out” won’t get you anywhere.

And in a typical 50-minute session?
You’re often just getting to the real thing… right as time runs out.

Here, we do not just talk, we confront the patterns that are holding your relationship hostage.
Together we move you from from against each other to your relationship against the pattern.

We look at the loops actually running your relationship that leave you drained, understand what’s really happening, and build something different.

This is therapy for relationships that are complicated, messy, intense, and worth it.

I offer both 75 and 90-minute sessions with my couples to make faster movement. I am here to work myself out of a job and get you both connected.

Expect direct conversations, a little humor, and guidance on how to break the cycle and show up differently and do something that actually works.

Let's get you 
Unstuck

Sex Therapy

Using real research and relationship know-how, we rebuild trust, untangle the loops, and help you actually understand each other again.

Couples Therapy

Couples Therapy

Poly and ENM/CNM
Relationships

Extended Sessions

Poly and ENM/CNM Relationships

Couples therapy

Relationships are messy no matter the setup. Poly, partnered, or figuring it out, you deserve support without judgment and someone who "gets it". 

Poly and ENM/CNM Relationships

sex therapy

Extended Sessions

sex therapy

couples therapy

It’s not always about sex… but when it is, it’s a clue. I help couples uncover what’s really going on and why the same loops keep showing up.

Sex Therapy

Poly and ENM/CNM Relationships

EXtended Sessions

Intimacy Concerns

Marriage Issues

Sometimes waiting weeks between sessions isn’t enough. Longer sessions give you focused time to dive deep and heal faster. 

Feel better
Sooner

Poly and ENM/CNM Relationships

Extended Sessions

Sex  Therapy in Newark, Ohio

I’m Sarah Newcomer, an Independent Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Sex Therapist, and the Relationship Specialist behind Relationship Reset Therapy.  I am one of less than seven Independent MFTs who hold the AASECT Certified Sex Therapist designation in the state of Ohio. I have dedicated my practice to working exclusively with couples and CNM/ENM partnerships to untangle stuck patterns and actually rebuild closeness.  

I’ve got ADHD, anxiety, and a highly analytical brain, so I get how relationships can get messy, mentally, emotionally, and yes, sometimes sexually. Adulting, shifting agreements, endless communication… it can feel like too much and I GET it.

My approach is a blend of Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy(EFT). EFT is based in attachment theory and is a science-backed method, considered the "gold standard" working with couples. I blend empathy, humor, and real talk in my sessions. No endless spirals, no turning every fight into a negotiation, or generic "do date nights". Just clarity, regulation, and working towards connection that actually lasts.

Hey, 
I am a relationship nerd...

You’re ready to end the Pattern and reset to connection that lasts 

Get support from someone who is dedicated to helping relationships.

Ready to see what change could look like when you work with a relationship specialist? Book a consult call and let’s start figuring this out together.

Take the first step

Sarah Newcomer, Marriage and Family Therapist L.L.C © 2025